The most difficult thing in this world is to keep everyone happy if there is any work. One who wants to keep everyone happy can never be happy himself.
We should try our best not to offend anyone. Even if we think well, not everyone will speak well of us. There are some people who do not look good. There should be objection to this. You have done fifty good things, but if one goes wrong, some people will catch one. We cannot decide who will say what, who will do what, what will be the response. A man's maturity is determined by what and how he reacts to a matter, event or event. The measurement of our vision depends on what we see.
Humans have two options for what to do with people's reaction. If it is true, then accept it. If it is incorrect, ignore it. Went to a young saint. They said, I think of all the good, but all speak of my bad! The saint heard this and said, can you stop people from speaking? The young man said no. The saint said, do not let all that talk come! You stop it! Many people also do it by beating their mouth. If he finds out that someone is talking nonsense about me, he will immediately pick up the phone and say, why are you talking about me like this? I have done so much for you. By doing this we are wasting our energy.
How we take what someone says is also important. This is the story of an artist. His friend once said that the man used to say about your art that you don't know much. You make some mistakes again and again. The artist said, what mistakes was he talking about? Friend made mistakes. The artist immediately picked up the phone. "Thanks for pointing me out," said the critic. you are right. I often make the same mistakes as you say. I did not even pay attention to that. The man said, "I didn't mean your displeasure." I like that you took it in the same sense that I wanted to say. When the talk was over, the artist's friend said, "When you picked up the phone, it happened to me that you would fight now." The artist said that when someone speaks weakly about you, you should also think about who is speaking. Why do you speak? The man is a scholar. It is also a great thing that he thinks a lot about my art. What he said is going to improve my art, isn't it? The artist's friend said that he also makes no less mistakes. If you criticize others, why don't you see your mistakes? The artist laughingly said, "Man, where did I see my mistakes?" I knew when he showed up? It is not my job to find fault with it. My job is to correct my mistakes.
Our relationship capabilities also depend on how we view an event or thing. We sometimes think of someone. Believe it or not, it makes me angry. This does not happen every time. This is the story of a girl. He does the job If work is running late it means going to bed late. Woke up too late. Used to live with mother-in-law. Once the pier was gone. Was talking to her mother about the house. "Before I get up, my mother-in-law is in the kitchen," she said of her mother-in-law. He got up early. Make your own tea. Then everything would disintegrate. I have to get up and do everything right The girl's mother said, son, why do you think negatively? What do you say when you wake up late, do you sleep comfortably? You make your tea, no? He must have told you that you have to wake up early and make me tea! Maybe you are resting. I will get tired of working. The good of man should also be seen.
The day after returning home, the girl tells her mother-in-law that she is fine. Do not wake me up to make tea. I get a little more sleep, it feels better. You will do me a favor Would you please enter where it came from? Mother in law said, Ouch! What's in it I didn't mean that everything should be in front of you when making tea! If you see it organized, I will do it. Lack of openness is often the cause of relationship failure. It should be broken only when the glands are broken. If we do not break the gland, it starts turning, then the gland does not break, the relationship is broken.
There are many people in our lives. There are some things that make us feel bad. Those people are also different from us. Some are his own, some are familiar and some are parka. What matters most is the category of the person who speaks for us. Many people are taken seriously and saddened by the fact that it does not matter to us, which has nothing to do with us. We sometimes give too much importance to a man. Give importance only to those who deserve it. Went to a young philosopher. He said that those who do not know me speak ill of me! The philosopher said, we also have to make some circles of relationships around us. Some people are in the first circle and some in the second or third. The rest are out of the circle. Not to worry about them. There are some people who bother you. They are just looking for your aching vein. They also want to distract you. The more we bother, the more we see it